Stormborn

So tonight is the season six finale of Game of Thrones and then we'll have to wait a long winter for new episodes. #SadDay Can the Starks hold Winterfell? Has Khaleesi overthrown the masters once and for all? Is Margery plotting something? Are the six million subplots and conspiracy theories known to those who have read the books taking shape?

So I wrote a long while back about my Aunt Gloria who is an amazingly talented artist whose iron and gold jewelry was selected for the Khaleesi on Game of Thrones. Such a cool achievement and line on a resume! Gloria is way too diverse to be defined by just a couple pieces she's made but when we started to notice cheap knock-offs of the Khleesi ring and bracelet being sold on Etsy, we encouraged her to make more of the real thing so that fans would have an opportunity to have something truly special. Well, that's easier said than done --- like all her art, the jewelry is typically bespoke, one-off pieces that are hand-forged and often experimental. To recreate multiples of the same ring and bracelet involved a long process of creating a mold, making each piece by hand, and individually finishing each one. A limited edition of 100 rings and bangles as worn by Daenerys herself is available here.

But I don't want to just give you a sales pitch because it's really not necessary. Her work is beautiful, she is the kindest and most generous soul --- and especially if you're a fan of the show, the opportunity to wear something integral to such an iconic character speaks for itself.

Since my cancer diagnosis, Gloria, like so many family and friends, has been a truly wonderful support, staying in touch even a world away and constantly offering inspiration, humor, compassion, and motivation. When she told me I had a package on the way, I was half surprised --- it certainly wasn't necessary and I know how much trouble it can be to mail something from London. And when I opened the box to find this inside, I was truly touched.

I don't mean to make this all about me, but.... well it is my blog. It's such an honor that she would send me No. 1 of 100. Everything that this symbolizes is incredibly special to me.

You can see the hallmark and number 001 inside.

Which brings me to this --- Daenerys Targaryen is my cancer spirit animal.

Each piece will be unique in its finish. 

She is born in the midst of a battle and a raging storm, just like I started this new chapter of the rest of my life in the middle of a battle my body had been waging against me without my knowing. She has to fight for her place in the world against those who doubt her, just like I am fighting for my place in this world against all the statistics, averages, and educated opinions who say that this is all but an impossible goal. She is compassionate and empathetic but committed to justice and ruthless against her enemies and well, this cancer is my enemy and deserves nothing but the absolute worst we can deliver, right?

It looks heavy and definitely feels substantial but it's totally wearable. 

And finally, she is the Mother of Dragons. Before Milo was born Enrique picked out a little stuffed dragon for him, with chewy parts and a rattle. Milo takes it in the car with him every time and I hear him shaking it in the backseat while I drive. When we were planning his first Halloween costume we decided he must be a dragon because he is so spirited and feisty, and I wore a "Mother of Dragons" shirt to go with it. E told me a few months ago that Milo is my fight --- his strong, stubborn, amazing little personality represents all the strength, faith fuel and yes, stubbornness that I am bringing to this cancer battle war. Not only does he represent how I will fight, but he IS the why I fight. A mother does not flee without her children.

ahhhhh he was such a baby!

So basically, get your hands on these incredible pieces of wearable art. Especially now while the UK is still part of the EU because who knows how shipping and importing and such will work after that all goes down....?!?!  And, if you're listening cancer, don't underestimate me because I might speak softly or am usually pretty easygoing... because I'm not going to stop the wheel, I'm going to break the wheel. 

Oh, and happy viewing of the Season Six Finale! Here's hoping Jon Snow's #manbun is here to stay.


Seven Blessings to all of you,