9.23.2013

Employment Update

Still looking for a job.

It's ok.

Haven't ruled out the following, which makes not a bad life plan:
  1. Win The Amazing Race
    The camo + matching Knockaround sunglasses is a good look, no?
  2. Appear on morning and late-night talk shows as the winner and of course the fan favorite
  3. Use part of my winnings to fund the establishment of a small creative biz/party planning service/nonprofit
  4. Parlay that into a Martha Stewart-esque line ofchildren's clothing, pet accessories, home furninshings, dishes, artisinal bath products and candles, possibly a frangrance
    #MarthaPleaseAdoptMe
  5. Further Karsashian myself (yes, it's a verb) by opening a restaurant and cute little shop full of handcrafted, eco-friendly goodies and perhaps and bed-and-breakfast or a Glampground
  6. "Host" parties and events for straight cash homie, a la Paris or Heidi Montag (except instead of Vegas or Miami clubs and pool parties it would probably be like, "Come have a cup of coffee and crafternoon" or "Watch the Padres game and eat carne asada nachos")
    Obviously I've been working off the carne asada nachos
    and made Cookie Monster into a hat of some kind.
  7. Win Dancing With The Stars, obvi
    My destiny
     

Thoughts, comments, suggestions? In this economy, a reality TV career is as reliable as pretty much any other field, right? Maybe I should go back to school and become a nurse as was my plan going into high school (I was influenced by my RN grandmother and also watching a LOT of E.R. at the time).

Hasta!

9.19.2013

The Last Five: Books I Read

I love to read. I always have. As a kid I always had a book with me--in the car, anywhere I had to wait, if we went to a restaurant... I remember going to the library what felt like almost every week during the summer (thanks Mom!) and even reading with my nightlight after I'd already been tucked into bed. Both my parents did so much to foster my love of reading and I hope they realize what a gift that has been--it's something I hope to do for my own kids one day.

Of course as a student the pleasure reading seems to fall by the wayside a bit but now I try to always have a book in progress and really love to end my day with some reading on my pillow, even just for 10 minutes.

If I had to choose I'd have to say that I love history/historical fiction, or current books about places I just can only imagine (I loved Three Cups of Tea and Stones into Schools, there's been a few that I've passed on to multiple family members that we all loved - Cane River was one, Big Stone Gap was another; and I absolutely love books about smart, strong, sassy women--I read Bossypants by Tina Fey on our vacation last year and had tears in my eyes from trying to stop myself from laugh-snorting on the plane, and my favorite book of all time is Little Women.)
 

I thought I'd pass on the last few that I've read, I hope someone might find a new favorite or even just a light read.

All Things Bright and Beautiful / All Creatures Great and Small - I remember reading some of James Herriot's children books (especially The Christmas Day Kitten) but didn't realize until recently what a collection he had produced. This is just such a sweet collection of stories and although it looks like a huge book (the version I have is actually both volumes published together), the nice thing is that you can pick it up, read a quick chapter, and put it down for a few days or a week if you have to; it's not so involved that you have to remember lots of names, dates, etc., although the main few characters are so delightful you won't have trouble remembering them, they feel like old friends. I read this over the summer but given the geography (old Yorkshire farmland), it would be lovely to read this over the winter curled up in a blanket with your warm beverage of choice.

Lady of the Rivers / The White Queen / The Red Queen - I'm grouping these together even though I first read The White Queen over a year ago.... and even though these were published in a different order, I would suggest reading them in chronological order (though there's some overlap in The White Queen/The Red Queen). I love historical fiction, and I know these books can sometimes have more fiction than history, but they are still fascinating, and what I love best is that they tell history from the perspective of three incredibly strong and determined women. Especially in a time when women had so few options and were usually taking instruction from a father or husband, it's great read about women who fought to shape their own destiny and to fiercly protect and advocate for their children and families. Sure they are at times ruthless and manipulative, but they get things done.

Serpent in Paradise - If you are like me and dream sometimes of going Kerouac and heading to an island where your future children will never hear of Fox News or partisan politics or have to hear anything ignorant or experience bigotry or witness hatred or wear shoes.... then this book could make you think twice. The author experiences living in the most remote community in the world and from her experiences you come to understand that human nature knows no geographic boundaries and living in any kind of community is both challenging and rewarding. I found it fascinating even though it's apparently a bit dated in terms of present-day access to the island, etc.

The Madonnas of Echo Park - Found this at Dollar Tree, of all places... What I loved about it is the really diverse cast of characters, and how the author wove together each of their stories. Everyone's lives flow and connect and pass each other in unexpected ways and made me turn back to a page earlier in the book to see if there was a clue I missed. I also really like that most of these characters are working class, or even pretty impoverished--dealing with daily trials, broken families, "bad" neighborhoods--and so often these are stories that stay in the dark, that we don't hear... and yet they are interesting and touching and deserve to be told. This book helps bring a better understanding of others and reminds me that everyone we meet is fighting their own battle and has a story to tell.

What have you been reading--- anything on this list? If so, what did you think of them? What should I add to my list? Are youa Kindle/IPad type of reader or are you like me and still like to turn pages?


Happy Reading!
 

9.04.2013

cathartic

When my hair starts to get past my shoulders I always think that I am going to let it keep growing and have long, flowing, Bohemian-looking awesomeness or something huge and sexy...


And maybe it looks ok once in awhile (trust me, I know this is not even long by most standards but this is about as long as I've ever had it)... but mostly it just starts to feel stringy and split-endy and generally boring and gross. My hair is super-fine so it feels yucky if I don't wash it at least every other day (i.e. - I'm not one of those girls who can wash it once a week); and basically I just get sick of it and bored.
#AwkwardSelfies

And usually chop it off. Right around my shoulders seems to be my sweet spot.

I'd been thinking it was time to cut and when the job news (or lack thereof) came last month I took it as a sign that it was time for a change and fresh start. So two days after the Big Announcement, off it came. I find it kinda' cathartic (that's such a chick-flick thing to say, right?).


Besides, I think this looks a lot more polished for all the interviews I'll be having (knock on wood). #Hopefully
Post-job interview!
It also feels ten pounds lighter and looks healthier. I like to think it's like at the end of Tangled when Rapunzel really came into her own once she lost all the hair literally weighing her down (sidebar: Seriously Eugene? You just take a random hack at her hair and it magically becomes this cute, layered bob? Ok Vidal Sassoon.).
I mean, the first time I asked for The Rachel in seventh grade,
it looked like my head was run over with a lawnmower.
A lawnmower with its eyes closed. #AmIRite?
So buh-bye long-ish hair. I'm sure I'll be back at some point. In the meantime, saving money on shampoo!

What was your last big hair change - cut, color, bangs? Are you the type to cry after a haircut (no offense but I smirk at you if so)? Do you prefer Rapunzel's hair to be long and lovely or short and sassy?




8.22.2013

Ice Cream Social: With a Cherry on Top

Is there anything better than an ice cream sundae on a gorgeous summer day?

Maybe (shirtless) Ryan Gosling serving you an ice cream sundae on a gorgeous summer day...? 


I wasn't able to deliver the Gos, but we did organize a fun ice cream social to celebrate the beginning-of-the-end of summer. We had it at a very nice and extremely quiet park just down the street from our house, so there was a great playground for kiddos and we were pretty much the only ones there. E was a saint for helping set up our patio umbrella, a shade tent we really didn't end up needing (plenty of trees), and some lawn chairs and lawn games. 

The umbrella with the little lanterns
looks like a sombrero, no?
The bubbles and hula hoops were the best $5 spent on this event--
kept little (and big) kids entertained all afternoon.

We had plenty of toppings and disposables made the clean-up easy... and I was THRILLED that the park had a recycling bin for paper and plastic, so everything pretty much made it in there.



We had some pretty fierce cornhole competition going...


And some fun with the "photo booth."



And of course there was ice cream... and root beer floats and (gluten-free, fat-free, dairy-free) popsicles and ice cream cone-shaped marshmallows. With whipped cream. And a cherry on top. 

The one thing we didn't have was my favorite flavor (I kept it simple with vanilla)... Toasted Coconut from MooTime, this local ice cream parlor where E and I both worked one summer in college.... Lawdy how I miss the free ice cream because that homemade, premium ingredient stuff is sell-your-firstborn prices (maybe not quite, but...). What I don't miss is the crazy boss lady we had that summer, but I digress. 

What's your favorite ice cream? What are your favorite sundae toppings? Do you shoot whipped cream straight from the can into your mouth (and if so, shame on you)? Is anyone planning an end-of-summer party or are you already planning football tailgates, pumpkin carvings and Halloween parties? Do you microwave your ice cream like I do because you like it soft (#TWSS)?

So long, sweet summer (**raises a spoon in salute**)...


8.19.2013

Unemployment, Day 1: Bucket List

I'm one of those people that picks their optometrist based on whether they're open on a Saturday and only schedules appointments after 5:30 so I don't have request to leave work early... I've had super-flexible bosses the last few years, should've taken advantage of it, I know...

So now that I have some time free during business hours, and don't have as much pressure to fit fun and productivity into just 48 precious weekend hours, I have the following on my (incomplete) unemployment bucket list.

In no particular order:
  1. Use my gift certificate for facial laser peel
  2. Go to dentist, optometrist, try to get a referral to neurologist or whoever prescribes the miracle migraine medication
  3. Detail the car
  4. Organize our closets (clothing and linens)
  5. Organize my craft and DIY supplies (side-note: I may have some craft supplies to pawn off on people pretty soon)
  6. Use my groupon for carpet cleaning 
  7. Start really working out again (ha)
  8. Stock the freezer full of healthy crockpot meals that will be ready to go
  9. Organize the pantry
  10. Go to the beach like I haven't all summer (sacrilegious in SD, I know)
  11. Focus attention on my role as Campus Relations Advisor for Alpha Gamma Delta at SDSU and with a charity event project I've had brewing in my head for awhile....
  12. Take up my grandparents' always-available offer to come over for lunch or dinner (one of the benefits of living 5 minutes away).


Things I plan to do to stay sane:

Maybe I've been watching too much Orange is the New Black (eeeeee soo good! The Season 1 finale, ohmygod...Pretty sure I'd do alright in prison now) but I believe there is value in creating a routine and to-do list to stay productive and not waste my time not spent working on job applications. As I recall during unemployment it's really easy to get stuck in a rut of wearing pajamas all day, not eating reagular meals, not getting fresh air all day... making you just feel crappy. So my goals for day-to-day include, but are not limited to:
  1. Wake up at the same time I normally would if I were going to work.
  2. Eat a nutritious breakfast (which I haven't done yet today and now at 1pm I'm on the edge of starving).
  3. Exercise, preferably outdoors.
  4. Not watch trashy television and try not to work with MSNBC on in the background too much (oops, hour 2 of MSNBC is on as I type this).
  5. Get dressed every day, even if it's just shorts and a tee-shirt or something to wear working out. Sure, I'm one to stay in my pjs all day on the occasional Saturday if I'm just doing stuff around the house, but to do so day after day just makes me feel sloppy and lazy... and doesn't project the confidence that I want to portray. 
  6. Talk to people, not just online, and socialize. Sure you don't want to go out to lunch everyday or anything, but you can get really lonely and isolatedat home all day and it doesn't take long before you feel like a mjor loser.


Anyone have advice on how to stay productive, focused and positive? Anyone on their second round of unemployment? :(  Any ideas on what I should add to my lists? Anyone want to hang out so I'm not such a loser?


 Halfway done with Day 1!

8.13.2013

Unemployment: T-minus...

Starting Friday I will be unemployed. For the second time in five years (I was laid off Jan. 2009 the day I came back to work from our short honeymoon). This is basically how I felt on Monday when I found out:


It sucks. It's scary. When I lost my job right after we got married I was out of full-time work for almost 11 months... and then found a HORRIBLE job that resulted in me coming home crying almost every day... so I was desperate to take a chance on what is my current job six months later... despite it being only part-time... and what was supposed to be part-time for 2-3 months stretched into a year of part-time work... during which we went through a lot of our savings and I feel like we're still playing catch up despite me now having been back to full-time work for two years (so to all the friends and family asking why we haven't had kids yet and when we're going to, there's the long answer).

Enough of the pity party.

I'm lucky to have had this job the last three years... with very nice people, a good work environment, and even though it pays below what I understand is the industry standard, I've had some really great opportunities--like, working with international companies and organizations, meeting some awesome business and community leaders, and writing more than I ever thought I would. Back to doing what I thought I'd be doing when I majored in advertising and pr (more or less) and helping some clients that made me feel good about putting something positive into the world (more or less; I mean, it's still work and it has its days).

But we've also worked with some really difficult people (we always figured it was a side-effect of us all being too nice to say no and thus taking on a lot of pro-bono work, delivering above-and-beyond, etc.) And it was a super-small, family organization; meaning that at some point the principals would be ready to move on... unfortunately that time came sooner than any of us expected as it was expedited by some of the aforementioned really difficult people. Long story short, the agency is closing its doors and my job of three years is no more.

It's not the worst thing in the world (at least not yet). I had come to the realization in the last few months that I had done about all I could do in my current position and with the business not really growing, it was time for me to move on (I was also soooo ready to be done with the aforementioned really difficult people). So I was already kinda' keeping my eyes open for the next thing. Of course, I would have liked to be able to continue working full-time while searching for the next opportunity and making that transition. And you know, keep paying rent and eating.

But there are a few advantages:
  1. Not having to "sneak around" trying to apply and interview while still working full-time. I've only done it once and some casual browsing but it's like, you feel deceitful, you know?
  2. My bosses have TONS of contacts and are being extremely supportive--giving me archives to add to a portfolio, sending my resume to their colleagues who have already promised to forward it, and offering recommendations. I am confident that their support is going to be an asset.
  3. I have a few things that I've been wanting to get done that I was trying to schedule around business hours (appointments, carpet cleaning, etc.); so my hope is that I'll be not working just long enough to take care of a few things.
I also have incredible family who are supportive and sympathetic and have promised to not let me end up being a hobo (although sometimes that doesn't sound like a bad option, trains are cool).

I've had my mind on some goals and "to-dos" for myself... because I know that unemployment can be super frustrating and depressing.


So I'll be putting those down in writing and hope that helps me stick to them so that this time, however long (hopefully short!) it is will be productive, healthy and mainly positive. I'm doing my best not to freak out.

Please wish me luck, pray to your Diety of Choice, send me the good vibes that you have, and let's hope karma is on my side. Unfortunately karma doesn't pay the bills so let's hope "Getting A New (and much more lucrative) Job Is In My Very Near Future."

Here goes nothing!

8.09.2013

Ain't No Party Like a SpeakEasy Party

Some friends had a birthday party last week (one twin planned a joint birthday as a surprise for the other)...

As you might have guessed from my rsvp, I like themed parties :)

A "Goodbye 20's, Hello 30's Party" at the "Blind Tiger Speakeasy (password, "White Mustache"), complete with "bootleg" drinks, a name-that-iconic-moustache game (which we won, woot!) and dress code.


The boys looked adorable (esp my 1920's tennis player) and the girls got dolled up pretty nice, too.


I love costume parties but won't spend much on a costume.. the top I found for $3 at AmVets
and safety-pinned it to a skirt that hung in my sister's closet for the last five years or so
to make it an empire-waist dress... good thing the pins held up! 
Inspiration here; racquet from Goodwill
(we now have about 7 antique wooden racquets, four of which still need to be displayed.

It was swell! 

Anybody else planning a 1920's -ish party? So many cute ideas out there for music, decor, etc. You could incorporate elements from The Great Gatsby, Chicago, etc... I'm thinking activities could include 1920's Mad Libs, a Charleston dance-off and charades using 1920's books, songs and movie titles.

I'd also love to do this for a fundraising gala on a grand scale!


“In his blue gardens men and girls came and went like moths among the whisperings and the champagne and the stars.”
― F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby




Cheers, old chap!